According to data from Gitnux, Around 1 in 5 people in the UK have experienced an anger problem or have difficulty controlling their anger.
As emotions go, anger can be a tough one to control, especially when we are in the depths of it.
According to leading mental health charity Mind: “We all feel angry at times – it’s part of being human. Anger is a normal, healthy emotion.”
However, as many of us are all too aware, it can get out of hand.
One way that lots of us tackle anger is by venting it out to a friend or partner. It’s a great feeling — getting it all off your chest, vindicating yourself in the process, and coming away feeling like you’ve done something with the anger.
However, according to a report published this month, venting may not actually be a healthy solution.
Why venting anger often does more harm than good
According to Sophie Kjaervik, a postdoctoral fellow at the Injury and Violence Prevention Program at Virginia Commonwealth University, when we vent, we could actually be firing up our anger even more, rather than releasing it.
Kjaervik came to this conclusion after doing a meta-analysis of 154 articles on the subject of anger and found that venting anger actually made the anger worse.
“Combining venting with anger makes it worse because you become even more aroused,” said Kjaervik.
Instead, she advises that when you’re feeling angry, you need to cool down your arousal levels so you can cool down your anger.
I’m disappointed, too, I love a good vent.
How to calm down
Mind recommends following these steps to learn to control your anger:
Here’s some things you can try: