Allison Keating answers your queries about life and relationships
Show that even if the family separates, you will always be their dad. Picture: Getty Images
Question: I am a father to three children aged 5 to 13 and I want your advice on how to leave my marriage without destroying my relationship with them. Our marriage has been banal and loveless for a while. My wife is a nice woman but over the years she has lost herself in the kids, losing her looks and her spark in the process. I, on the other hand, have kept up my fitness and am in great shape for a man about to turn 50.